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A Family Guide to Addiction Evaluations

Most families do not call because of one dramatic event. They call after months of small things that stopped adding up — missed calls, missing money, a personality that keeps changing.

An evaluation turns that uncertainty into a plan. This guide explains when to ask for one, what happens during it, what we can and cannot tell you, and how to raise it without starting a fight.

1. Signs a loved one needs an evaluation

You do not need proof of a diagnosis to request an evaluation. Concern is enough. These are the patterns families describe to us most often.

  • Tolerance has clearly grown — the amount that used to be plenty is now a starting point.
  • Morning drinking or using, or drinking to steady shaking hands.
  • Money is unaccounted for, or things are disappearing from the house.
  • Work performance is slipping: late starts, sick days clustered on Mondays, a job lost.
  • Sleep and eating have changed sharply in either direction.
  • Withdrawing from family, secrecy about their phone, new social circle you have never met.
  • Promises to cut back that last a few days at a time, repeatedly.
  • A DUI, an overdose, an ER visit, or a probation requirement.
  • Existing counseling that is not producing change — a common signal that a higher level of care is needed.

2. When weekly counseling is not working

Weekly outpatient counseling is a real level of care, and for some people it is enough. When someone is drinking daily, or using between every session, one hour a week is not a match for the problem — and staying in it can convince a family that treatment does not work.

The honest test is simple: has use decreased since counseling started? If not, that is not a failure of the counselor. It is a level-of-care mismatch, and an evaluation is how it gets corrected.

A good counselor will often say this first and refer out. We coordinate directly with outside therapists so the existing relationship continues alongside PHP or IOP rather than being replaced.

3. What actually happens during an evaluation

Our drug and alcohol evaluations are free, confidential and usually complete in under an hour. There is no cost and no obligation to enroll.

  • A conversation about substance use history — what, how much, how long, and what has been tried before.
  • Medical history: medications, seizure history, pregnancy, chronic conditions.
  • Mental-health history: depression, anxiety, trauma, prior psychiatric care, current safety.
  • Withdrawal risk assessment — this determines whether medical detox is needed first.
  • Living situation, transportation, work schedule and childcare, because a plan that ignores these fails.
  • Insurance verification, usually completed the same day.
  • A recommended level of care — PHP, IOP, virtual IOP, or a detox referral — and a start date.

Our drug and alcohol evaluations page explains the process in more detail, including ASAM levels of care and what to bring.

4. What we can and cannot share with you

This is the hardest part for families. Federal confidentiality rules for substance use records (42 CFR Part 2) are stricter than general medical privacy, and they apply to adults regardless of who is paying.[1][2]

If your adult loved one signs a release of information naming you, we can talk with you about their care. Without one, we cannot confirm whether they are even a client.

What we can always do without a release: talk with you about your concerns, explain levels of care, describe what treatment involves, and help you plan how to approach the conversation.

5. How to raise it without the conversation exploding

  • Pick a sober moment, in private, when neither of you is rushed.
  • Lead with what you have seen, not with a label: "You have missed three weeks of work" lands better than "You are an alcoholic."
  • Bring a specific next step, not an ultimatum: a free evaluation, a phone number, an offer to drive.
  • Say what you will do, not only what they must: "I will come with you" and "I will keep the kids that morning" change outcomes.
  • Expect anger and do not treat it as a no. Many people agree days after the first conversation.
  • Do not negotiate at 2 a.m. or during use.
  • If there is any risk of self-harm, call 988 or 911 rather than waiting for the right moment.

Confrontation-style interventions are not required, and evidence supports approaches built on engagement rather than ambush.[3] If a family session would help, we can include one in the plan.

6. Warm handoffs: how the transition actually happens

A warm handoff means nobody is handed a phone number and left to make the call themselves during the worst week of their life. The referring counselor, hospital, probation officer or family member connects directly with our admissions team, with consent in place.

In practice that means we know the person is coming, the evaluation is already scheduled, insurance is already verified, and there is a named counselor waiting on the first day.

The window between deciding and starting is where most people are lost. Closing that window is the single most useful thing a family can do.

7. Planning while you wait for a start date

If a detox bed or an intake slot is a day or two out, use the time. Keep contact frequent, remove alcohol and unused medication from the house, arrange transportation, and secure childcare and pet care in advance.

If the home environment is itself a risk, ask about recovery housing — living somewhere structured during PHP or IOP is often what makes outpatient treatment viable.

If withdrawal symptoms appear while waiting — shaking, sweating, confusion, any seizure — treat it as an emergency and read our alcohol withdrawal safety guide.

8. Your own footing matters

Families arrive exhausted, often after years of managing someone else's crisis. Treatment for one person does not immediately undo that.

Family involvement is part of our program because recovery happens inside relationships, not apart from them. We also encourage families toward their own support — Al-Anon, Nar-Anon and family therapy exist because this is genuinely hard.

You are allowed to set limits. Protecting your own stability is not abandoning them.

Choose the right schedule

Levels of care for an evaluation treatment

Start with the support you need now, then step down as recovery becomes more stable.

About 6 hours a day · 5 days a week

Partial Hospitalization Program (PHP)

Our most structured outpatient level of care, with a full clinical day at our Phoenixville, Philadelphia or Avondale office while you continue living at home.

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9–15 hours a week · Day or evening

Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP)

A flexible in-person schedule for people who need substantial addiction treatment while balancing work, school, family or a step down from PHP.

Explore our IOP program

Secure online care · Statewide access

Virtual IOP across Pennsylvania

Clinically appropriate Pennsylvania residents can join structured groups and therapy from home without traveling to one of our three offices.

Explore our statewide virtual IOP

Our outcomes

53%

of clients complete our PHP and IOP programs — vs. a national average near 26% for similar outpatient programs.

+9

point average gain on the BARC-10 recovery capital scale from admission to discharge.

-5.95

point average drop in combined PHQ-9 / GAD-7 anxiety and depression scores during treatment.

Where we provide care

Phoenixville

2215 Kimberton Road, Phoenixville, PA 19460

Serving Phoenixville, Kimberton, Royersford, Collegeville, Spring City, Pottstown, King of Prussia, Norristown, Malvern, Exton, Downingtown and West Chester.

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Center City Philadelphia

1026 Winter Street, Philadelphia, PA 19107

Serving Center City, Chinatown, Washington Square West, Rittenhouse, South Philadelphia, Fishtown, Northern Liberties, University City and the Main Line.

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Avondale

1284 Gap Newport Pike, Avondale, PA 19311

Serving Avondale, Kennett Square, West Grove, Oxford, Landenberg, Coatesville and the Route 41 corridor of southern Chester County.

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Virtual IOP is available to residents anywhere in Pennsylvania. Call (610) 233-4342 to ask which option fits your schedule.

Insurance accepted

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Family questions about evaluations

Can I schedule an evaluation for my adult child or spouse?

You can call us and we will walk you through everything, but an adult has to consent to their own evaluation. Most families start by calling to plan the conversation — that call is free and there is no pressure to commit to anything.

How much does an evaluation cost?

Our drug and alcohol evaluations are free, with no obligation to enroll in treatment.

Will you tell me what happens in their treatment?

Only if they sign a release of information naming you. Federal rules for substance use records are stricter than general medical privacy.[1] Without a release we cannot confirm whether someone is a client.

What if they refuse to go?

Refusal on day one is common and is not the end. Keep the door open, stay specific about what you have seen, and keep the next step small and concrete. Call us and we will help you plan the next conversation.

They are already seeing a therapist. Should we still get an evaluation?

Yes, if use has not decreased. That usually indicates a level-of-care mismatch rather than a therapy problem, and we coordinate with existing therapists so the relationship continues alongside PHP or IOP.

Do you offer evaluations virtually?

Yes. Evaluations can be completed by phone or video, and virtual IOP is available to Pennsylvania residents statewide if travel to Phoenixville, Philadelphia or Avondale is not workable.

Sources & references

  1. [1]SAMHSA — Confidentiality of Substance Use Disorder Patient Records (42 CFR Part 2). View source ↗
  2. [2]U.S. Department of Health & Human Services — HIPAA and Substance Use Disorder. View source ↗
  3. [3]National Institute on Drug Abuse — Principles of Drug Addiction Treatment. View source ↗

Citations link to the original government and research sources. This guide is educational and is not medical advice. If someone is in danger, call 911.

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