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Signs of Drug Abuse

Most families don't call us because they found something. They call because a hundred small things stopped adding up — the missed shifts, the money, the new friends, the locked door.

Here is what our clinical team looks for, and what to do once you see it. We admit to PHP, IOP and virtual IOP from our Phoenixville, Center City Philadelphia and Avondale offices.

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Andrea Kiotis, MA, LPC, CAADC

Clinically reviewed by Andrea Kiotis, MA, LPC, CAADC Clinical Director.

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Physical signs

  • Pupils very small (opioids) or very large (stimulants); bloodshot eyes
  • Sudden weight loss or gain, or a sharp drop in appetite
  • Nodding off mid-conversation, or days without sleep
  • Frequent nosebleeds or sniffing; burns on fingers or lips; unexplained bruises or marks
  • Poor hygiene, tremors, slurred speech, or a smell you can't place
  • Wounds that aren't healing — a warning sign of xylazine ("tranq") in the local fentanyl supply

Behavioral and social signs

  • Secrecy about where they've been and who they were with; a new circle you've never met
  • Missing work or class, slipping grades, lost jobs framed as someone else's fault
  • Mood swings that arrive on a schedule — irritable, then euphoric, then flat
  • Withdrawing from family, hobbies and sports they used to care about
  • Defensiveness or rage when asked a direct question
  • Legal trouble: a DUI, a possession charge, a suspended license

One sign on its own means very little. A pattern across several categories over weeks is what matters — and it is enough reason to make a call.

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Financial and household signs

  • Money missing from wallets or accounts; borrowing with vague reasons
  • Items disappearing — jewelry, tools, electronics
  • Prescription bottles that empty early, or refills from more than one prescriber
  • Paraphernalia: burnt foil, small plastic bags, cut straws, cotton, pipes, unfamiliar pills in a baggie

When it's a disorder, not a phase

Clinicians diagnose substance use disorder using 11 criteria — losing control over amount, failing to cut back, cravings, tolerance, withdrawal, and continuing despite harm to health, work and relationships.[1] Two or three criteria is mild, four or five is moderate, six or more is severe.

You don't need to make that call yourself. Our free evaluation does it in one appointment, and we explain the recommendation in plain language. Our signs and symptoms article walks through all 11 criteria.

How to raise it — and what happens next

  • Pick a sober moment, not the middle of a crisis. Name specifics you saw, not labels.
  • Ask questions instead of building a case: "What's been going on?" beats "Are you using?"
  • Have the next step ready before you talk — an evaluation appointment, a phone number, a ride
  • Keep naloxone (Narcan) in the house if opioids are any possibility. It's free at Pennsylvania pharmacies.[2]
  • If they say yes, move that week: PHP at about six hours a day, IOP at 9–15 hours a week, day, evening or virtual
  • Get support for yourself too — family therapy is part of our programs, and our family guide to evaluations covers the whole conversation

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Levels of care for substance use treatment

Start with the support you need now, then step down as recovery becomes more stable.

About 6 hours a day · 5 days a week

Partial Hospitalization Program (PHP)

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9–15 hours a week · Day or evening

Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP)

A flexible in-person schedule for people who need substantial addiction treatment while balancing work, school, family or a step down from PHP.

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Clinically appropriate Pennsylvania residents can join structured groups and therapy from home without traveling to one of our three offices.

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Where we provide care

Phoenixville

2215 Kimberton Road, Phoenixville, PA 19460

Serving Phoenixville, Kimberton, Royersford, Collegeville, Spring City, Pottstown, King of Prussia, Norristown, Malvern, Exton, Downingtown and West Chester.

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Center City Philadelphia

1026 Winter Street, Philadelphia, PA 19107

Serving Center City, Chinatown, Washington Square West, Rittenhouse, South Philadelphia, Fishtown, Northern Liberties, University City and the Main Line.

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Avondale

1284 Gap Newport Pike, Avondale, PA 19311

Serving Avondale, Kennett Square, West Grove, Oxford, Landenberg, Coatesville and the Route 41 corridor of southern Chester County.

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Virtual IOP is available to residents anywhere in Pennsylvania. Call (610) 233-4342 to ask which option fits your schedule.

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Need detox or inpatient first?

If you need medical detox or a residential stay before outpatient care, call us — we'll help coordinate placement with trusted partners and plan your step-down into our PHP or IOP when you're ready.

Common questions

What are the earliest signs of drug abuse?

Usually behavioral rather than physical — secrecy, a new social circle, missed obligations and money that doesn't add up, often weeks before anything is visible physically.

How can I tell which drug someone is using?

Pupil size, sleep pattern and paraphernalia are the best clues, but guessing is not necessary. A clinical evaluation identifies what's being used and how much treatment is needed.

What if they deny everything?

That's common. Keep the door open, stay specific about behavior you've seen, and call us — we coach families through the next conversation at (610) 233-4342.

Do we need an intervention?

Often not. Many families succeed with one honest conversation and a scheduled evaluation. If you do want formal help, see our article on choosing an interventionist.

Sources & references

  1. [1]NIAAA / DSM-5 — Substance use disorder diagnostic criteria. View source ↗
  2. [2]Pennsylvania DDAP — Naloxone access and overdose prevention. View source ↗

This article is educational and is not medical advice. If someone is in danger, call 911.

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